I need some advice. The last time my wife changed the password on her phone, I found out she was talking to one of her exes, and she tried hooking up with him. It was quickly foiled when I confronted her about it, and the issue was resolved. She hasn’t spoken to him since. HOWEVER, I recently noticed she changed her password again.
I got caught trying to snoop, and she FLIPPED OUT. She threatened to divorce me and kick me out of the house. My question is, was I justified in thinking something wasn’t right and checking up on her?
The way she reacted was a huge red flag to me, and she is extremely protective over her phone. Always has been. Even though she has free access to my phone at any given moment, knows my passwords, etc., I don’t know any of hers, and she gets mad if I even glance at her phone. She even refuses to give me the password to our cell phone account, which we share. How do I resolve this conflict?