Hi, I wonder what you would do??
My wife and I had a baby three weeks before Christmas. By Christmas day, we were both at the end of our tethers, which resulted in me having a massive fight with my family while my wife was there. Although it is all sorted now, my mum’s partner — for the second time — threatened to kill me and called our baby very rude names.
He has a history of violence, and we have not spoken since. However, my wife went to visit my mum today, and he was there (my wife didn’t know until she got there). She stayed for an hour and left. She doesn’t want to be near him anymore, and I don’t want to see him either.
How do I tell my mum this without starting another row? What would you do?