I have been with my boyfriend for three-and-a-half years now. He is beyond perfect for me. He’s always there, he’s so romantic, and I know he loves me. I’m his first girlfriend.
I have been cheated on and hurt in the past, and I still have my guard up, but my boyfriend doesn’t even show interest in other girls, and always makes me feel special and tells me how pretty I am, and it does make me feel amazing. But whenever I see him talk to someone else or add someone on Facebook, I get extremely jealous, and it always turns into an argument!
After being together for thee years, I found out he was talking to another woman he worked with via text A LOT, but always deleted messages, so I never saw anything. Once I found out about it, he cut her off and has been trying very hard with me ever since. But he works with this woman.
I feel uncomfortable every single morning he leaves to go to work, and I do not trust him even though he hasn’t actually done anything. It’s getting me down, and I feel miserable all the time worrying about what he is up to. I constantly check his phone because I’m paranoid now, and I don’t know what to do. I love him, and he’s so good to me. I don’t want to lose him, but it’s not fair on either of us anymore.