Hi, I need your help and advice, please.
I have been seeing this girl for about 5 months now, and I think I’m in love with her. The problem, however, is her ex-boyfriend keeps calling and chatting her.
I have discussed how uncomfortable I am with that, but she claims there is nothing going on between them. Recently, she has been saving this guy’s profile pictures on her phone, and even had him as her bbm display once.
Also, I read a chat between her and a colleague, where the colleague was trying to get down with her and kept making silly advances at her. She did not play along with the guy’s flirtations, but I’m worried that she did not show any strong disinterest. Rather, she casually laughed it off and changed the topic. I’m sure the guy is on her neck.
She has tried to convince me that she’s not seeing these other guys, but I’m not settled. I literally burn inside and get very upset whenever I hear her talk to her ex or this colleague.
One minute, I’m laughing and happy, and the next minute, I’m all depressed cos she is talking to these guys.
I hate that I feel this way really. I really wish it would stop.
She’s nice to me and all, and I can’t stop her from talking to guys, but I’m not feeling too secured.
Could this be that I’m obsessed or too petty?
What can I do please? I don’t like this feeling at all.