Marriage question

So, I have a decent marriage. We have usual issues… I noticed in my wife’s cell phone chatting with her friend something like this- “I have to go through this for another 8 years. Pray to God to give me patience”

Should I ask my wife about it? Firstly, I am worried she might think I am snooping on her. Secondly, is it that important for me to know what “8 years” mean and what happens after 8 years?

2 thoughts on “Marriage question

  1. resullins says:

    [Well, let’s try to rule out anything else.

    Does she dislike her job?
    Do you have kids?
    How old is she?
    Is she in school?
    Do you guys have a dog that sheds a lot?

    If there’s not a rational explanation that we can deduce here, I’d say go ahead and ask her. I mean, unless you had a stethoscope to the door and were actively eavesdropping, you weren’t snooping, you overheard. There’s a HUGE difference.

    Just be like, “hey, I heard you talking to Broomhilde on the phone… what do you have 8 more years of?”

  2. DavidIsGreat says:

    [I know this is like a month old, but yeah, “what happens in 8 years?” is a legit question. If she won’t tell you it might be a concern but it could be anything. I wouldn’t be concerned

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