Ok, so I met this guy about 6 months ago, oddly enough he was my car salesman. He was very charismatic, and easy going but something about him made me nervous, so I was intrigued. He kept it professional up until the end of our encounter where he asked me out for drinks. This was a weird situation because he said he would pick me up around 7. He didn’t call until 8, we didn’t meet up until 10, I drive to meet up with him and we ended up going to a club. I had cancelled all previous arrangements and I really wanted to get to know him so I just went with the flow even though sometimes I thought it would have been better to just stay home. For the first few months we would talk on the phone pretty regularly, he would FaceTime me a lot but when it came to texting he was kind of bad at it. So it got to a point where I would only see him when or if I was drunk, this was because he would always hit me up at these times lol, but when ever I actually tried to be around him when I was sober he would ignore my calls. Now he only comes around every so often to hook up, when we talk he is really sweet and understanding unless I say something that he doesn’t like. Then he will be kind of rude. I really like him but I want to get to know him on a deeper level, I just wonder if it’s a waste of my time or if I should Persue him. I’ll admit I don’t try to call/text him often, but that’s only because I hate being rejected. So my question here I guess is was this all my fault? Or is it that he just doesn’t know what he wants and I make it easy for him to just come around whenever he feels like it?