Save it Please help

I need to fix my relationship. I have talked to him since October and we became really close but he got texts from this girl that she liked him…,he said he got bored with me and things started to fall apart. I have been trying to do whatever I can to try to fix it but somehow I keep failing (meeting his mom, going on dates, walking with him) I need advice on what to do all my friends say to end it but if u truly knew how much he means to me that’s the last thing I want to do. I need to know how/what to do to gain attention and get what I fell in love with… Please help me I’m desperate to save this

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5 thoughts on “Save it Please help

  1. Taurwen says:

    [Nobody who tells you that you bore them is worth your time.
    Even if you did manage to “fix it” with him, you’d spend the rest of the relationship working on being his entertainment instead of his partner. It will never get better. He will always find other girls he finds more interesting, he will always eventually get bored, he will never truly care about you.

  2. Matt Sanchelli says:

    [Listen to your friends and be done with him.

    Why does he mean so much to you, when you obviously don’t mean as much to him?

    Saying he got bored with you is basically him taking the weaklings way out of a relationship. You get bored with things like games, not people. If he once cared about you it’s obvious he doesn’t now. Unfortunately there isn’t anything you can do to change that. You even said it yourself that you’ve tried whatever you can and those have failed.

    Put your time, energy, and feelings to better use, and directed towards someone who actually deserves them.

  3. missmaria says:

    [He’s bored with you? As harsh and blunt that is for him to say (and yes it bruises the ego somewhat), I feel that was his roundabout way of being honest.

    There’s not a lot you can do to salvage this unfortunately and this comes from an experience where a guy I was seeing, was texting an ex and decided he wanted her more than me. As frustrating as it maybe, especially if you are currently recounting the steps it took for you two to be together, just put it down to you dodging a bullet of unhappiness.

    Because honestly, do you really want to spend anymore time with a guy that makes you feel that way? Is it worth wasting your days trying to make it work with a guy who told you that you are boring? Save your efforts for someone who cannot wait to spend time with you, the type of person who can sit watching a movie with you in a blissful, comfortable silence. You don’t need to be bringing the fireworks and disco music all the time.

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