No confidence anymore

recently I have been feeling really self conscious, I’ve never been the most confident person in the world but lately it’s been worse partly because I have a holiday coming up and I’m going to have to brave getting into a bikini and secondly I’ve just lost my job But I have found my bf makes me feel worse. It’s nothing that he does on purpose but because he is so confident and I’m not I feel even worse about myself like I should be like him and be full of confidence. He is border line arrogant though which really bugs me. I have told him but he just laughs it off but his attitude makes me feel worse :/

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4 thoughts on “No confidence anymore

  1. Joanna says:

    [He does not sound like a good boyfriend then. His method of dealing with your distress does not sound positive. You should be a priority to him.

  2. Dennis Hong says:

    [I’m not sure what your question is, but I agree with Joanna. A good partner makes you feel better about yourself. A good partner doesn’t make you feel like shit.

  3. nightowl says:

    [OK well your boyfriend sounds like a complete wanker. If he doesn’t make you feel like the most amazingly awesome woman in the world then there is a problem. And I don’t mean that your happiness should be his responsibility , I just mean he should appreciate you and love you and you should be able to bask in that feeling…. And arrogance is never good. Confidence is great. Arrogance sucks. No wonder you don’t feel good about yourself. Ditch this guy. Sorry to be so blunt but it’s clear as day this guy is a dick.

  4. Anonymous says:

    [if your boyfriend is being a fucboy, send him packing.

    I promise you if you’re single, you can focus on you

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