I am 30 years old, and I want to get into a serious relationship. I am 5 10″, skinny, partial balding(but you cannot notice), smart, and surprisingly athletic. I am looking for feedback on why I might not get responses from women. And also why I am getting responses— weird but I like to hear both sides.
Just a fun guy that is currently sporting a mustache and a beard. I laugh at internet memes, smile at babies, and if I could sing— I would sing in the rain—hah.
I am a shy at first, but when I feel comfortable I become extroverted. But to be honest you would never notice this, because I smile at strangers, willing to hold my assertions in meetings, network at conventions, and introduce others to complete strangers — hah.
I have a competitive nature that I am able to keep in control, because I feel that the role of competition is to make the opponent stronger not beat them down. Since I have been on both sides of the coin it is a concept I have learned and appreciated.
Currently, I am working part-time and working at my friend’s start-up. In the up coming future I will be taking night-time classes to help further my writing skills and to attain a better grip over business. Some people would say it is quite interesting that I already have my masters, yet I want to keep going on. However, the truth is that I am just keeping up with the plan I had in my mind back in high school. Yes, I will admit it did change a bit, but I always wanted to further my education beyond a masters.
I chose to transition from full-time to part-time this year, because going at nights and taking classes was exhausting.
I also volunteer to teach Sunday School every week, though I am planning to stop after the summer, because it is little hectic juggling Sunday School, Classes, work, and anything else that comes in the way—hah. I will probably volunteer to do another tasks in church that takes less thought, but still fulfills a purpose. I like to help people, I want things to go smoothly, and frankly I can make it go smoothly if I plan and pray.
I am here on this site because I just want to meet someone special (yeojachingu) on this site. I understand this might take some time, but I up for the journey.
I enjoy going out and talking with friends. I plan everything I do and rarely do spontaneous. Granted, you can plan the spontaneous behavior and make it appear spontaneous, it is still planned.
I cannot wait for summer so I can go to the Mid-Summer dance events at the Lincoln Center.
I enjoy a game of tennis, basketball, ping pong, and swimming. Though I am outside person, I am not against kicking your butt in Nintendo Wii—hah. I have showed some co-workers my skills at employee tournaments.
I am going to list some quotes from what other people have told me:
“you do not say much…but when you say something it is very impactful…” — best friend from elementary school
“I have to try to make you laugh once a day” — a male friend
“you are pretty fun guy” — a random guy
“I do not think I have to worry about you…you always have everything put together” — a older male friend
“you are pretty slim…” — a friend
“OMG…I thought I was older than you” — a law student in her mid 20s
“you do not look like you are 30” — woman in her early 20s
“you’re skin is so supple” – a woman in her 20s
“…you are soo tall” – a 3yr old
WHAT I AM GOOD AT:
- breaking down concepts
- understanding mathematical concepts though I am not classically trained to be a mathematician
- [[legal research]]
- teaching kids the concepts of the [[bible]]
- reading body language
- and more to come
still working on it… too many to choose from… I mean I can go on….
I like the show Numb3rs, How I met your mother…
Food & Beverage:
oolong tea, lung ching tea ???, ginger beer, hibiscus tea, [[soursop]]
milk shakes, [bubble tea], mooncake, [[steak with mushrooms]]
lychee, longyan, cheeries, black berries, fish balls, red snapper, fish balls, glass noodles, sugar cane
bok choi, egg noodles, squid, kimichi, and ackee & saltfish…
SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUT:
work, design, papers, love, God, family, meeting someone special (obvious…)
YOU SHOULD MESSAGE ME :
You just want to say hi there, and if you are curious to learn more about me.
Also if the conversation is going great, I see no reason why we can’t meet up within a few days. I’m so used to the offline scene were the dating part is fast, and the courting in the relationship is to be slow, sweet, and special.
If you like someone why should you wait, you are only guaranteed today.
You think you can fit a glass sliper — hah. I am just messing with you.