Someone that is 3 years older

So my name is Megan and I have a problem. Someone that my brother is Best friends with told me that he loves me. I don’t know if I should believe him or what because my life has 1,000 twists and turns. Me and my best friend (we call each other Bestfwiends) just had a fight and it was stressfull. Anyway this kids name is Aaron and I love him back. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want my mom to be mad because she doesn’t approve of Aaron. Last night we were together and we were laying on the floor. My brother were in the room with his friend Lucas and I don’t think I can handle that because Lucas has told me numerous times he wanted to have sex with me. He always bugs me about it and I don’t know what to do. So I guess my question is what should I do about Aaron because I love him back, but my mom doesn’t approve. He lays on me and hugs me all the time and he’s really sweet and nice but my mom doesn’t approve so should I not tell my mom about him or what should I do because I’m confused. Thanks for all of your help.

3 thoughts on “Someone that is 3 years older

  1. AKchic says:

    [#1 – Don’t have sex.

    The fact that you’re still in the mindset of telling your mother tells me that you are young. As in, under 16 years of age young. Meaning, you are probably under the age of consent young.

    As someone who had her first kid at the age of 16, I beg of you – wait to have sex. As long as possible. You aren’t ready for it yet. Be mad at me all you want, but believe me when I tell you that you are too damned immature to handle the potential consequences right now.

    Also, if the other kid is 3 years older than you, and you do have sex with him, it brings up the potential for statutory rape, which could put him on your state’s sex offender registry for life, depending on local laws (age 15-18 for the boy).

  2. Jaqi says:

    [I’d like to second what AKchic said, but I also really want to encourage you to tell an adult what’s going on with Lucas. Based on age, what he’s saying to you is very inappropriate and for your safety, you need to let someone know.

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