Perhaps this isn’t quite exactly the ideal topic for this particular forum but a casual sex relationship is a type of relationship; as much as any other relationship (family, dating, friends) right?
To be completely up-front about it, I’ve never had casual sex. All of my sexual encounters (intercourse) have been with women I’ve been in relationships with (meaning we were exclusively dating or in love).
Between girlfriends I’ll date. Occasionally comes a woman where we have some chemistry and we’ll have passionate episodes; making out, touching and sometimes getting as far as getting naked in bed but it never gets any further than that.
It’s been about a year since my last serious relationship meaning that it has been a similar length of time since I last had sex.
And I’m fed up with it.
I have urges like everyone else. I just want to have sex. Obviously though I’m not going to just go somewhere and pay for it (no, I don’t live in Vegas). I’d still like it to be with someone I have some sort of “connection” with even if it is just a physical/lust connection.
So, how do I go about this? How do I have casual sex? Where do I go to meet someone who is just looking for the same thing; casual partner or one-night stand? (I’ll go ahead and say I’m not a fan of going to clubs so I figure that is going to greatly limit my options).
I do also want to add that I’ve been on a couple dates with this one girl who I am very attracted to, and I believe she is me but sometimes the signs are difficult to recognize. How do I find out if she’s willing to “go all the way” without ruining the potential of future dates (as I do enjoy spending time with her)?