So I recently had a mole begin to act very strangely (it swelled up, changed colour, etc.). I got myself to the doctor and he’s made an appointment to see a specialist. The doctor, the first one, couldn’t tell me one way or the other if it was cancer. Anyway, I’m pretty fucking scared. I haven’t really said much about the whole thing to my wife (other than I’m going to see the specialist just to be safe). I want to be able to share what I’m feeling with her, for the support I know she’ll give me, but I don’t want her to worry either. What’s the right thing to do here?