“My marriage is falling apart”

When I met my wife, she was in normal fit shape, and her natural body and face is 10/10 beautiful, like unbelievably so, to the point that she could get whatever she wanted whenever she wanted it. If she could sing she might be famous. But I was not interested in her because she seemed so into getting attention for her looks. It put me off.

At some point she actually gained a lot of weight, like 100 lbs really fast. I was friends with her during that time (not necessarily close) and never really considered being with her, I was honestly concerned for her because she had gained so much weight incredibly fast and she would literally be dead now if she had kept that up. She eventually lost most of that weight. We got together when we ran into each other and she helped me with a place to stay on campus at our school, after a bad breakup that left me with no place to live for awhile.. As we talked, she explained how she had started focusing on spirituality in life (not any specific religion, same as myself) and I fell for her. I made a mistake believing that she had changed. I made several mistakes. I thought I would be on her side by acknowledging how her body had changed and supporting her to be mentally and physically healthy. Continue reading

“My wife wants to sleep with other people”

My wife announced that she wants to sleep with other people. She claims that our sex life is bad, and she is not satisfied. We had incredible sex just the night before and she thoroughly enjoyed it. I know her, and I know when she is faking and she wasn’t.

I don’t know what to do. I don’t want her to cheat, but she is convinced she won’t be happy until she gets to sleep with someone else.

“Our sex life has gone downhill”

I tell my girlfriend what I want in sex. I need her to be more spontaneous about things. She’s super sensitive about me touching her. It’s been 5 years and I feel like my sex life isn’t where it needs to be in the relationship. Am I overreacting about the situation?

“My boyfriend’s circumcision is leaving me unsatisfied”

Hey! I have a question about a situation I’m having with my boyfriend. We have been together for a year and we just recently started exploring intimacy in all forms; sexual, emotional, etc.  A little background on my man, he had a surgery three years ago for a circumcision, and for a very long time he masturbated and now can’t get off on just the vagina.

I personally get off when my man ejactulates because of my mouth, or my body, but this is not the case. He would finish with his hand and I would be left somewhat unsatisfied and sometimes even feel sad after we finish. He can make me cum, but I always prefer it if it were with his penis, not his hands. I believe his masturbation is getting in the way of this.

My question is, how do I tell him that I am unsatisfied because of this problem, all while making it clear that I still love him and do not insult his manhood? Please get back to me as soon as you can!