Hey! I have a question about a situation I’m having with my boyfriend. We have been together for a year and we just recently started exploring intimacy in all forms; sexual, emotional, etc.  A little background on my man, he had a surgery three years ago for a circumcision, and for a very long time he masturbated and now can’t get off on just the vagina.

I personally get off when my man ejactulates because of my mouth, or my body, but this is not the case. He would finish with his hand and I would be left somewhat unsatisfied and sometimes even feel sad after we finish. He can make me cum, but I always prefer it if it were with his penis, not his hands. I believe his masturbation is getting in the way of this.

My question is, how do I tell him that I am unsatisfied because of this problem, all while making it clear that I still love him and do not insult his manhood? Please get back to me as soon as you can!