“He’s been messaging other women on Craigslist”

My previous ex had a relationship with a girl,¬† the last 2 years of our relationship. So I’ve always been “on guard” with all relationships after that one.

I found a guy who experienced a similar issue with his ex wife (outside relationships discovered via text msg,) so I felt good going in. I recently discovered that he’s been messaging girls/couples on Craigslist when I’m not staying over at his place. I can go into why I know this, but just know it wasn’t due to over snooping on his devices.

I don’t know how to bring it up to him. I want to because since I figured it out, I’ve made every excuse I can think of for us not to have sex for fear of transmittal. What is hard too, is I love him. He’s an amazing partner, if I didn’t know this was happening behind the scenes. Help please? Is there a way back from this?

“Is he bipolar?”

What do I do … I don’t know where to turn for help? My man is a perfect gentleman most of the time, but will switch to a Demon in seconds?

I have been in a relationship with my man for 2 years. The 1st year was on/off, since we lived in different cities. The 2nd year he moved in with me, and we became serious. We both fell in love quickly! When he is normal, he does more for me than anyone I have ever been with. He’s affectionate, loving, giving, and true to me. Continue reading

“I’m not a part of her social life”

I’ve been with my partner now for about 14 months. I find it quite difficult to accept how secluded her social life is. I’ve only met her best friend twice (once properly) and whenever she goes anywhere, it’s always without me.

I understand that sometimes when she goes out with her girl friends that I would naturally not go. But every work event or get together is never open to partners, and I feel as though I’m a separate part of her life. I feel as though I shouldn’t be irritated by it, but I can’t help the way I feel. I’ve not really discussed it with her. I’ve mentioned it in a passing conversation but she brushes it off and just says ‘go out with your friends on the same days.’ But I don’t want to set up extra socialising events just because I’m not invited to anything she does.. Am I being unreasonable?

“I feel unsatisfied and used for sex”

My partner of seven years lately hasn’t been satisfying me.

Just today, I was off my period and ready to go. It felt amazing and he cums and just rolls over as if it was nothing. He goes on these sites pretending to be me, (this is his fetish and yes, I gave him permission for it.) He uploads my nudes (without face.)

He gets off on the fact that other men get off to my body. But when he goes to have sex with me, it’s like he kinda uses me and is done. I don’t know what to do, it has me really pissed off now. I love the man to death, but I’m tired of feeling unsatisfied and used for sex. Everything else in our relationship is great, ¬†just sexually it’s lacking.