“I booked a holiday with her, now she’s ignoring me”

I am friends with this girl, we have been friends for almost 4 years. I initially met her through another friend at university. I feel like we are friends, I would consider her as more, but I know her tendencies and games and because I’ve had problems with her group of friends before,  in general I don’t think I could as much as I’d want to,

Anyways, we talk pretty much on and off, here and there, but there is never a hard dead silence, and she keeps telling me she wants to go on holiday. I have always objected because I don’t feel like going away with a female who is a close friend, for obvious reasons. Continue reading

“This has been my longest relationship. Should I try to salvage it?”

Basically, this may just be a case of “grow-some-balls”, but here goes…

I’ve been seeing someone now for ten months, (my longest relationship yet & the first since I was 21, I’m now 28) we don’t live together, we see each other three-to-four times a week, and I spend the majority of my weekends as if I were single; playing football, then going out with my mates, then seeing her Sunday night, then a couple of nights a week at my place, just watching tv etc etc…. Continue reading