“He let his friend drive my car and lied to me about it”

I am dating a guy. We recently went out of the country together. When we were away, he let one of his guy friends (whom I have never met) drive my car, and he lied to me about it. I found out because I found a receipt in the car, and when I asked him about it, he lied initially. I asked him again, and he came clean. I was annoyed, but tried not to get too upset about it. I have a tendency to overreact. He didn’t understand my being upset. Was I wrong for being annoyed by this?

“My best friend is throwing her own party on my birthday”

My best friend is going to have her massive birthday house party on my birthday, and I don’t know what I should do. I am obviously not okay with it, but I don’t know if I’m just being overly dramatic?

We had recently talked about our dreams of having a massive party together. Then she asked me out of the blue in front of some of our other friends if she coulc have her party on my birthday, so I was obviously kind of shocked and just said, “yeah that’s fine,” because I didn’t want to sound like a spoiled brat in front of our friends. Continue reading

“Their baby talk drives me crazy”

My best friend and her boyfriend hangout 24/7. On top of that already annoying fact, they both speak in baby voices to each other pretty much all the time, which is what I really have the problem with.

It is so unbearably annoying that I become physically mad about it. I become shaky and my heart beats faster when I’m around them. Her cousin thinks its funny and has now joined in with the baby talk. I don’t know what to do because I’m glad that she’s happy with this guy but at the same time, I was to jump off a building when I’m around them.

I feel like I’m going to explode soon, but I don’t know how to say something without sounding like a bitch. I’ve kind of hinted at the fact that I don’t like it, but they don’t stop.

What do I do?

“I need to break up my friend’s relationship”

My guy friend has been in love with his boyfriend since they were in secondary school, but since they got together, he’s been on a downward spiral. He used to be a smart little introvert and now he’s out taking class A drugs on the regs. The final straw was finding out he broke my friend’s arm during a drunk fight this week, my friend loves him too much to leave and I’ve always played friendly because I’d rather my friend be safe at my house than out fuck-knows-where but it’s too much now.

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