“Should I forgive him? – my heart says yes, my brain says no”

My boyfriend of a year, had a girlfriend when we started dating. I did not know he had a gf already or I would not have gotten back together with him. We were secretly dating, because when I was younger he was charged with statutory rape and kidnapping. He is 21 and I am 18 now. This court case went on for 2 years. Anyhow, we got back together and everything was great. A year later they dropped the charges on him and we got a marriage license and they could not legally stop us from pursuing it. Now this girl messages me his texts from the entire 9 months we were dating of him, saying he loves her, calling her babe etc. Continue reading

“I forgave my boyfriend for cheating on me”

My boyfriend cheated on me and ever since that I’ve had a weird relationship with him. I forgave him, and we are talking again, and I am in love with him, but I don’t how if he still is in love with me.

He talks to me like I’m his girlfriend, but doesn’t give me as much attention. He’ll also make dumb mistakes and I keep forgiving him, but now I’m starting to question if he is just using me for sexual purposes. I don’t know if I should confront him about it because we are on good terms and I don’t want to randomly bring it up, so I am not sure what to do.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.