“I sent sex texts to other guys and now I want him back”

I admit that I cheated on my boyfriend, however I only texted and sent sex texts. I never met with any of the other guys, or had any physical contact with them . I really do love my boyfriend. I know it might not seem like it, but I do and I feel like shit for doing it, but I really wanted the extra attention. I know that might sound bad but I have never received any attention from anyone besides my boyfriend. Not even my parents give me attention. I really want my boyfriend back but I have no idea how to get him back. Please help me.

4 thoughts on ““I sent sex texts to other guys and now I want him back”

  1. Anonymous says:

    First off you cheated. There is no “only” here. You cheated. Own up to that and appologize.

    I’ll be honest, this relationship is dead, because you chose to cheat instead of fixing whatever relationship issues that there were.

    I would spend some time solo before starting a new relationship. Find out what you need from a relationship before starting one.

  2. lafindelaffair says:

    Hey. You often things like this happen for a reason. You clearly have low self confidence and this was a validation exercise for you. If it’s meant to be, you will get back together. But will his trust forever be broken. Will he feel sick every time you pick up the phone

  3. Anonymous says:

    I am actually in this SAME EXACT situation! My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. In the first few months of our dating, I still talked to guys online and sexted. Never met up or arranged to meet them up. It was just purely online talk.

    He found out about the one incident and almost broke up with me over it but decided to forgive me. I kinda half came clean about the other incidents saying I had “roleplayed” with some strangers online but don’t anymore. I mean that’s what it mostly was, only a few situations had pics involved.

    He just said “As long as you don’t talk to anyone anymore, it’s fine.” and I showed him all my texts and contacts to show him that I am not talking to anyone else. I also deleted the sites I met those other people from. How long were you with your boyfriend? If you did it like me, within the first few months of dating then him breaking up is kinda harsh.

    I did what I did early on because #1 My self-confidence was shit and I sought out confidence from others, #2 I didn’t really feel “in love” right away but I certainly did fall in love overtime, which made me feel guilty, and #3 It kinda became an addiction for me.

    I stopped all this behavior long ago and I’m so glad I did as it was really eating me up. It was an addiction I’m glad I got rid of. Talk to him and be sincere. If he sees you are truly remorseful and that you really do love him, hopefully he takes you back. Don’t hound him though. Give him time to think about what he should do. Good luck 🙂

  4. Anonymous says:

    I think you might need some therapy. You are already acting out “daddy issues.” That’s basically when a child acts extra promiscuous when they were neglected socially. Boys do it too, but unfortunately our culture celebrates that. Solo therapy should help you so you aren’t continuing the cycle in each relationship you get in. I think this boyfriend is a bust. He’s going to be too young to get through this hurtle and honestly most adults would be hard pressed to see past it. You may also be polyamourus. Google that, because it has rules too. You can cheat and hurt somewhere there as well. Wish you the best.

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