Hello. I’ve been living with my boyfriend for over a year now. Everything has been great until these past few weeks. He’s been distant and preoccupied. Not answering my calls, taking hours to get back to me. Coming home late. Then last week after I worked the graveyard shift, I come home and find sex toys in the shower. (Dildo). He said he used it on himself. Then this morning I found my vibrator in his glove compartment of his car. It was in our bedroom previous to that. Once again, he said he used it on himself. I told him I’m not buying his story and he needs to come clean. He told me I need to get a grip and that my crazy thoughts need to stop, and I need professional help. That my insane way of thinking is driving him away and keeping me from believing the truth that he told me.
I don’t think that I’m insane or crazy. I think any woman in her right mind would think how I do. That he is full of shit. And that he is messing with my head because he got caught . What is your advice? By the way he will not let me go near his back door ever. Not even to tickle him so what am I supposed to think??