My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. She’s currently away in college, 9 hours from me, while I work back here at our home. In recent times she has been smoking a lot of weed (which she never did before going to college) and overall just talking to me less and less.
I don’t really care too much about the weed smoking, it’s truly not an issue, but when she came back for spring break, she said she’s been contemplating breaking up with me because she’s developed feelings for a female at school. This came as a bombshell to me. I asked if she smoked with this girl and she said yes. I asked if she smoked during valentines day ,and our 1 and a half year anniversary, and she said yes. That crushed me. I was heartbroken. She said she was off studying and didn’t message me or try to call me back after I tried. So once she left that day I just sobbed. I called out of work and all. I lost a lot of my trust in this girl but I love her with all I got. I asked before she left if she still wanted to be with me and she said she did. I feel like she genuinely does love me still, but my mind keeps telling me that she’s just using me. She’s back at school now and she barely talks to me again. I’m really at a loss for what to do.