“It’s almost a year since we last had sex”

In February 2016 my hubby and I found out we were pregnant. We had a beautiful baby girl in November 2016.

My problem – we haven’t had sex since we conceived our daughter in February 2016! He thinks it’s gross now. That’s literally all he will tell me when I try and talk to him about it.

It’s almost a year since we last had sex!! Thoughts?

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2 thoughts on ““It’s almost a year since we last had sex”

  1. Jessie says:

    What does he think is gross?

    Perhaps you should both go to your doctor together so that your doctor can explain to him that nothing is wrong with you and that you are more than fit to have sex.

    I don’t think how he is behaving is fair at all! You should really consider my above advice. Perhaps after that, you can even go to a counselor so that he can explain exactly what his problem is, so that you can work on fixing it together.

    In my opinion, if my husband told me it was gross to have sex with me, I wouldn’t be ok with it.

  2. Anonymous says:

    I would start with a marriage counselor. He may have a issue with sex… or he may be cheating on you… or something else entirely and he’s blaming sex being icky, but really he might be having issues of his own physically. It’s definitely unfair to you and if it doesn’t get fixed will lead to a divorce.

    If he won’t go with you, go alone. At least then you will find a way out of a marriage where your needs aren’t being met.

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