In high school, I was one of those people who just wanted to be accepted. I lost my virginity when I was 14 to a boy who I thought I was in love with. (Cliche right?) Anyway, that started my downward spiral and I ended up having sex with several different people, just because it was easier to do it than to say no.
My reason behind that, is because on different occasions with two different people regardless if I said no, they continued to do sexual things to me and I would just let it happen because I assumed they would continue even if I fought it. Well, my boyfriend of three years knows all of this, and now sometimes he does this to me too. I will tell him to stop and he will continue even if I try to fight it. I feel like all of the progress I have made over the last few years is slowly withering away, and I do not want to be that person again. I am just scared that this is how it is going to be for the rest of my life….
4 thoughts on ““I’m having sex even though I’m saying ‘no'””
When you say no and he continues, it’s called sexual assault and rape. Most sexual assaults and rapes happen from people you know.
Just because he’s your boyfriend it doesn’t mean he can do what he wants. It doesn’t mean that it’s not considered rape. I don’t care if you started fooling around and you changed your mind, once you say “no” and they don’t listen – guess what you’re getting raped.
I would revaluate that relationship – because anyone that would do that to you isn’t giving a fuck about your well being.
The others have already said what I’m thinking – remember, what would you say to someone who was making this post about their own situation? You’d let them know they deserve better, right? 💗 just pm me if you want to talk x
You should out of this relationship. And you should talk to your parents about therapy and antidepressants.