So, my husband and I have been together for 11 years. Lately, he seems really uninterested in me sexually or emotionally. We don’t talk unless it’s about bills or something serious. I’ve noticed lately he has been chatting with some old friends of his who happen to be female. One of the females was very disrespectful to me, and he did not defend me, but, he claims it’s just a friend, and that she is not attractive to him.
Yet, he has long private conversations with them – one of which was a sexual conversation that was supposedly a joke.
He says he loves me and is afraid to lose me, but am I really just being naive and being played or am I just being crazy?