My fiance and I have been living together since January 2016. A month after, he was sent to work on a job 600 miles away, and we only saw each other on weekends — which was also split up between time with his kids.
His ex does not allow me at any family events, like sports games, or wants me around at all. Four weeks ago, I was put on medical leave, and he has changed drastically. His relationship with his ex has gotten a lot stronger. He has disappeared and spent the night over there three times and not told me, answered my calls or texts, and then is angry with me for being upset when he returns.
He was supposed to come home for good this past weekend. Everything seemed good the night before. Saturday & Sunday, he did not answer my calls or respond to my texts. He showed up at 8:30pm Sunday night like nothing happened, said he was on a “soul search” and tried to be all lovey dovey with me. He left the majority of his belongings in a “storage unit” and took an Uber home. His Uber record shows him leaving from his ex’s house.
His first day back, he went to work. I called about one hour after he would have been off and asked him if he was coming home (I was honestly surprised he answered the phone). He said, “of course.” Two more hours later, I called and asked him if he could give me a time frame cause I had already cooked dinner. He jumped down my throat and said I had a bitchy attitude and to calm down. He still hasn’t told me where he was or what the heck is going on.
I am so very sad and frustrated and not allowed to express my feelings. i don’t know what to do. I’m trapped here because I have no where else to go right now. I love him and would really like to know what is going on. It hurts that I’m not even allowed to ask.