I have been dating my boyfriend for over 4 years. He’s a great guy and I am very lucky to have him. I feel safe in our relationship and feel that he is faithful.
Lately one of his single guy best friends has made me angry. A few weeks ago my boyfriend had lied about going to a sleazy bar with him. I wouldn’t have been upset if he hadn’t lied about going but found it disrespectful that he lied. This past weekend I was out of town for a girls spa weekend. I came home excited to see my boyfriend and gave him all the details. I later find out that his friend invited a girl that I’ve never met before to sleep over at my house. He claims that his friend is not with this girl but that makes me wonder that if they are not together, why she had to join boys night.
My boyfriends friend has given me bad vibes in the past.. One example is him bragging about having a hook up buddy with a woman who has a dirty website online that she has live shows on and takes her clothes off.
Do you think I’m a naggy girlfriend for being upset that a woman I have never met before slept over at my house? My boyfriend seems to think I’m overreacting and apologized but it seemed like he just said it hoping I brush it off and move on. Please help. Thank you.