My husband is unaffectionate with me. Consequently every male person that shows me any affection I tend to develop feelings for. Usually I just avoid them until my feelings subside, but this time it’s my boss. I’m also having delusions that he has feelings for me. He is much younger and the situation is impossible. I am a little lost and would appreciate any advice.
LemonVibe 
Have you talked with your husband about his lack of affection? Why is he unaffectionate? Even if he is not a very affectionate person he is your husband and has a responsibility to you.
Living your life starved for affection is no way to live. Were human beings we need human contact.
If theres no way to talk to him about it maybe you should get a dog. Dogs never withhold affection.
Never leave the one you like for the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love….