My girlfriend and I got into a dumb argument that I started a few days ago. It wasn’t a big argument, but it ended with me apologizing and telling her I love her, but she only responded with “okay.” Then, everything went downhill. I barely hear from her at all anymore, but when I do, it’s her telling me to leave her alone.
The next day, I took some ChickFilA to her work (I always do this), and she had a bad attitude toward me. I asked her if she’s mad, and she just tells me that she is really busy. I talked to her mom, and she said she’s been having female problems and to just show support. I try to show support, but I just keep getting “leave me alone.”
After several phone calls to my girlfriend, I finally got an answer. I asked of we were okay, and she told me, “our relationship isn’t the only thing going on in my life.” I asked if she wanted to be with me, and if she still loves me, and I got a simple “IDK” for both questions. I’ve been the source of her support for a while. I’ve always tried my hardest to make her happy and she’s always done the same for me. I was told to give her space, but I just can’t because I want to be sure that she is okay.
She has been hanging out with her friends, but she hasn’t been taking any time for me. No, she isn’t cheating, or into them, so that’s not the answer. I talked to her best friend and he told me he has been worried about her, and he doesn’t know what’s going on either. I don’t want to just up and leave her, but I don’t like this empty feeling in my heart. I’m trying my best to be a good boyfriend, but I’m failing miserably.
Also, a couple weeks ago, she mentioned that she’s becoming increasingly irritable. She also has periods several weeks/months in a row.
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Please help me.