Okay, so this has been going on for a while now and I don’t know what to do. I’m 16 years old, and I’ve been having this sudden urge to make out with any guy I’m with. I know it’s literally called being horny, and it’s purely hormonal. I am pretty sure I’m not asexual, but I am not interested in having sex AT ALL.
I’ve seen the consequences of unprotected sex, and sex when you are too young, and the consequences are not appealing to me at all. I literally just want a traditional one night stand kind of deal, where we make out for a while, and feelings beyond physical attraction are just not there, and we go our separate ways, unaffected besides the pleasure of making out with each other.
I’ve tried this before with a complete, and utter asshole, but it lasted a second instead of the few minutes I actually wanted at that moment, and it sucked. Though the thing is, it did relieve me of that gnawing urge to kiss.
That was a few months ago, and now, I am more alone than ever, and I just need to do this with someone. I have tried to find someone whom I wasn’t completely repulsed by, but when I do find someone, I am too much of a wimp to express what I want. Overall, I just need someone to tell me what to do, and how to make myself more available, while still being respectful to myself and others, and while not coming off as floozy.
HELP ME PLEASE ANYONE.