“I’m ready to lose my virginity, but my boyfriend isn’t”

I used to be abstinent. After some thought, I decided that that is not important to me anymore. I’m still a virgin, but, if sex happens, it happens.

My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now, and he refuses to have sex with me because of “my beliefs.” It’s been years since I told him I no longer believe in waiting, but, he absolutely will not have sex with me. What do I do?

2 thoughts on ““I’m ready to lose my virginity, but my boyfriend isn’t”

  1. mandiamanda says:

    I think he respecting your wishes and believe if you have sex with him although you all was together for four year. Maybe he think you would regret it and broke up with him since he love you so much…..

  2. Dennis Hong says:

    Choosing to remain a virgin until marriage is a pretty absolute decision. And if that’s what your boyfriend has decided, there isn’t anything you can do. So in that case, you’ll either have to 1) respect his decision, 2) leave him and start having sex, or 3) cheat on him.

    I suggest 1) or 2) …

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