So I looked on my partner’s phone last night. I know I shouldn’t have, but I just had this weird feeling, like someone was telling me to. Anyway, I found messages to two different women. He’s 24, and one of the women is 51. They were sending dirty pictures to each other, but she knew about me — he told her he had a fiance.
The other woman is a similar age to him. She’s just had her second baby. I was reading through the messages, and they have been talking for about 19 months now. He’s met her, but I don’t know how many times. Again, she knew about me, but carried on talking to him.
The messages I was reading, he was asking how she was, blah blah. She was been really dirty — sending him dirty pictures, begging him to go give her cuddles, telling him he’s not with the right woman. I literally fell asleep crying at this.
I have been with him nearly four years, and we have a two-year-old little boy together. The thing with the dirty bitch is, she’s been looking at my Facebook, and she would ask him questions about me — like, does she smoke, does she have stretch marks. But no remorse that she’s been a slutty homewrecker. She even asks him about our son. 😦
What the hell do I do? I’m in love with him, but I can’t deal with this. I don’t even know how to bring the subject up. Should I message her? I wanna frigging kill her !!! Please help me. 😦