Does he like me?

I’m a college student, female, but I’m really shy and quiet. There’s a guy in one of my classes and I’ve caught him looking at me quite a few times throughout the past 9 weeks, we’ve talked a few times, he’s stayed after class just to walk next to me and hold the door open for me, but he’s really quiet, too. I think he might like me but I don’t know and I’m too scared to try to talk to him more in case he doesn’t like me. Help, please.

2 thoughts on “Does he like me?

  1. Dennis Hong says:

    [If your reason for not talking to him more is that he might not like you, then I think you have to consider all the possible outcomes here:

    – He likes you, but you play it safe, so you don’t talk to him. Nothing happens.
    – He doesn’t like you, and you play it safe. Nothing ever happens.
    – He likes you, and you take the risk and talk to him. Woo hoo!
    – He doesn’t like you, and you take the risk and talk to him. Oh well.

    If you don’t talk to him — or at least show signs that you’re interested — then you’re possibly guaranteeing that nothing will ever happen. So this is what you have to decide:

    How much is playing it safe worth to you? Hopefully… not much?

    Either way, if the thought of talking to him still terrifies you, you can show interest without ever saying a word to him, ya know. If you catch him glancing at you, make eye contact and smile. Seriously, that’s all you have to do. Or at the very least, it’s a good start. If he’s shy, too, hopefully he’ll get the hint if he sees you looking back at him.

    And yes, if you’re shy, you’ll have to resist the urge to look away if you do catch him looking your way. But don’t. Force yourself to make eye contact and look back. And I promise it will get easier over time. And if you are able to do that, you’ll be able to communicate your interest without ever having to say a word to him. 🙂

  2. Anonymous says:

    [This sacred girl! know that all time happens the type like ,interview to all of you go have that for apart of life,engaged more you by it look,after.

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