I have been dating this amazing girl, who I am currently in a long-distance relationship with right now, for the past almost 3 years now, I’ll call her Jane, and I love her very much. However, she is a little unstable emotionally and unsure about her career choice, so I have no idea whether our lives will continue to coincide or if they will soon go in different directions. Recently I met another girl, let’s call her Lucy, who shares very many good traits with Jane and I see her everyday. They each have their differences, but their differences are each good in its own way. Jane is very clever, but wouldn’t generally be considered intelligent, however Lucy does have an intelligence that builds well off of my thoughts. I like having very philosophical/thought-provoking conversations, and while both listen, only Lucy tries to give her input as well. Jane has been hurt by many guys, so that, along with her emotional instability, forces me to check myself consistently so I don’t end up hurting her. I feel drawn to both, but I don’t want to choose one and lose the other. What should I do?