Why are girls so complicated?

So ive been talking and hanging out with this girl for a few months now and i cant seem to figure out whether or not shes into me. During some of the times we’ve talked and hung out she seems totally into me while the other time it seems she couldnt give a shit about me. Im putting this up now cause its gotten a lot worse to the point where she wont respond to any of my messages. I have friends who have told me that she posts things on tumblr like she “acts like she doesnt care but thinks about him every day”. Am i just overreacting or whats up? i honestly care about this girl so much and have shown nothing but love for her since we’ve started talking. I havent done anything behind her back or anything that would cause this, should i ask her about it or just continue trying to reach her the way i am now? i think giving up isnt so much of an option. Any advice is appreciated.

2 thoughts on “Why are girls so complicated?

  1. resullins says:

    [You have two totally different questions here. To answer your first, “why are girls so complicated,” that’s easy. Because they’re multi-faceted human beings with emotions, intelligence, and a sophisticated understanding of the complex world in which they live. But that’s not what you’re really asking.

    The girl you’re “talking to and hanging out with” is playing games. Not the same as being complicated. So if you want to find out what’s going on, you need to stop fetching the stick she’s tossing, and talk to her. You’re playing right into her game right now, and that’s not doing anyone any favors.

    Sit her down, tell her you don’t like the “good-cop, bad-cop” routine, and you need to know how she feels and what she wants. Make her give you a straight answer, and then you’ll know what to do. If she hems and haws, and doesn’t give you a direct response… then there you go. Walk away. This girl will keep dangling that string as long as you keep playing with it.

    Seriously, anyone that posts vague and cryptic messages online while effing with your emotions isn’t worth you time. Also, just an aside, how old are both of you? That might make a SMALL difference in my advice, though I don’t think so.

  2. Dennis Hong says:

    [Are you sure her Tumblr posts are about you? You say that you’re “hanging out,” but I’m not seeing any overt indication that you two are exclusively dating or anything.

    If her comments aren’t about you, that kind of explains the hot-and-cold….

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