So this really is a fairly cliche situation.
(BACKGROUND) For the past month or so I’ve been seeing this guy. We met through common friends, hung out a few times, and immediately had everything in common, but I never really sensed that he liked me as more than a friend. I liked him right off the bat, but he seemed like he wanted to keep it friendly. We just cooked, watched movies, and talked about metal all the time. Then he asked for my number and we started hanging out by ourselves and hanging out gradually turned into somewhat of a dating situation.
(PROBLEM) So I made a really impulsive decision to have sex with him. It was great, he was considerate, and ended it some quite bright fireworks. Problem is that I was a virgin, this all happened in a month and a half, and I haven’t seen him since. He blew off plans we had a few days ago with a bs excuse that I know isn’t true and stops answering texts every time I hint at wanting to see him. Now, I’d understand that he just wanted to hook up if he stopped talking to me, but he still texts and calls like he has an addiction and even asked me to prom. Our common friends say that he doesn’t shut up about me when he’s with them, yet he is avoiding any face-to-face contact with me. What the hell is he doing?