if a guy pursued you over four weeks and you were extremely careful to not make any first moves, be very cautious about his interest, and only offered reciprocity to his actions, and he finally makes out with you and there is chemistry – what does it mean when he continues to text you with familiarity or ways to make you smile the weeks after – but doesn’t ask you out again? finally, upon getting together again for a drink he explains that his parents are in bad health and he may not be in town and would like to take things slow. but his actions seem more friendly then romantic? does this mean he lost interest in a matter of a week? how does that happen?