So I’ve recently had a birthday, and am now closer to 30 than 20 which is pretty horrifying–single, no career plan figured out, etc. Now my life is by no means awful, and I know that–I have a job that I don’t totally hate (and sometimes even enjoy!) and pays my bills, great family and friends (some of whom live close enough that I can see pretty regularly), etc. But it seems like I’m just letting life lead me on (wake up for work, work, go home, sleep) rather than making active choices, following through with resolutions, improving myself, finding more happiness etc. I know it’s easier (and in my nature) to just go with the flow, but does anyone have suggestions in terms of helpful tips for avoiding this?