“I feel inadequate because my boyfriend likes big boobs”

My boyfriend and I work in the sport supplement industry where we are surrounded by overly sexy women with big fake boobs and butts. We are both very fit and I never really felt unattractive before, until I found out how much he loves big boobs and looking at these women.

I’ve been called hot and sexy…but suddenly I feel inadequate. I’m very fit so my chest is pretty flat and my butt is just average I guess. I feel undesirable because he is constantly looking at these girls for their physical attributes. Sure, I know he loves me and finds me attractive. But I know he would be more attracted if I had these attributes he desires. What the hell do I do? I find myself crying every time I find that he’s been looking at these other women because I wish he’d look at me that way…

“How do I make guys like me?”

I am a teenage girl. I get straight A’s and I am pretty smart. I am not that popular, but have over 700 followers on Instagram. I have a small group of friends, and a really close best friend. I have had crushes on some boys, one knows that I used to like him. But in general, I am pretty. I am proud of the way I am. I am quiet and patient but sometimes fun and outgoing.

I want to talk to more boys and get to have more guy friends. I feel like they only talk to the popular, fun, or outgoing girls. When guys sit next to me, we have a lot of fun. I love to talk about sports, and other stuff you can relate too. Sadly, we don’t have that connection outside of class. Even though I am happy about the way I look, how do I make guys like me?