“I’m a lesbian in love with a girl who hates me”

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I’m 16. I’m a lesbian. And I’m in love with one girl from my school. But she’s not in love with me.
We were friends a couple weeks ago. And then I fucked up. I did stupid things and I can’t fix it. I suppose she now hates me. We don’t talk anymore. I miss her so much and I hate myself for losing the girl I love, even as a friend.

Now I see two ways for me. The first one is where I can try to apologize again (I tried but it didn’t work,) or try to do something to get our friendship back. I don’t know if it is possible, but I can try one more time, because I really love her and being only a friend for her killed me, but it was amazing to talk to her every day. And the other way is where I just accept all the pain and give up on her and make myself to forget her. I don’t know what is right. I want her back so much, but maybe it’ll be better for everyone if I give up on her.

I’m tired of wasting my time, my thoughts, my nerves, my tears on her. Maybe I should get over her? It’ll be painful and awful and I’ll probably die, but one day I’ll wake up and not be thinking about her.
So, what should I do?

“My crush on a straight guy is causing me heartache”

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I’m a guy in a bit of an ordeal.

Since November, I’ve been walking home with this straight guy from my school. At first, I felt nothing when I was walking with him… In fact, I never imagined I would ever like him…

As time progressed, I found myself feeling so…alive every time I saw him at school. I knew that I would inevitably be met with pain, as he would never reciprocate such a feeling; but I continued to let my feelings grow. I thought it was the only way out of the pain I felt previously for another straight crush… Continue reading →

“I feel unsatisfied and used for sex”

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My partner of seven years lately hasn’t been satisfying me.

Just today, I was off my period and ready to go. It felt amazing and he cums and just rolls over as if it was nothing. He goes on these sites pretending to be me, (this is his fetish and yes, I gave him permission for it.) He uploads my nudes (without face.)

He gets off on the fact that other men get off to my body. But when he goes to have sex with me, it’s like he kinda uses me and is done. I don’t know what to do, it has me really pissed off now. I love the man to death, but I’m tired of feeling unsatisfied and used for sex. Everything else in our relationship is great,  just sexually it’s lacking.

“My fiance has dick pics on his phone”

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My fiance keeps going on dating sites. He knows I don’t like Snapchat (because he’s used it to online cheat before).  But I found it downloaded onto his phone again. So I snooped. I’ve found dick pics, pictures of girls, and online dating sites.

We’ve been dating for 4 years and live together. We made a family with all our animals. Our whole lives are financially and physically mashed together. I have no idea what do. Any advice for my sorry ass of a life?

“How can I talk to this guy when I’m too shy?”

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I’m a freshman in high school, and there is a Korean transfer student who is a junior. I’ve been meaning to talk to him for a while, but i’m terribly shy, so I ended up writing a note that basically said that he seems cool and that I would like to talk to him, but I’m shy, so don’t bring it upon yourself to talk to me; I’ll have to find my courage.

I somehow ended up with his number and we talked that afternoon. That was two days ago and I want to text him but I’m: 1) worried I might bother him ,2) really fricking shy, and 3) I’M REALLY WORRIED THAT I MIGHT BOTHER HIM. Not to mention I’m kinda too shy to actually talk to him at school, so it’s more like whenever I pass him in the hall, I smile and wave awkwardly. I need all kinds of help.

“Will a threesome make me jealous?”

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I’ve always considered having a threesome outside of a relationship and it’s something I would really want to try.

I have been in a relationship for around 6 months and am so in love, we have had very few fights but there has always been this girl I found suspicious, as she is the only other girl in his life that isn’t me. I haven’t met her and he knows her because they used to go to school together. They no longer hang out or talk but for some reason she makes me really uneasy, although his lack of contact reassures me it’s fine. Continue reading →

“When another girl touches me I get tingly”

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Hi, I’m 12 years old and I’m female. Since I was a small kid whenever another girl would touch me on purpose, I would get all tingly, and I still do. I have a friend who is a boy who I will make physical contact with just as much as my friends who are girls, but I never have the same feeling. Please, can someone tell me what that is, I’m not nervous or scared, just curious.

Thank you!

“My best friend doesn’t want to be my friend anymore”

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Hi there! I’m in need of a little friendship advice. I really need help, so please respond! My best friend and I were recently split apart when I moved to the city, about an hour away from our old ranch. My best friend and I promised we would stay in touch, but she became best friends with someone I really didn’t like.

We hadn’t talked for while, and I was hiding  all these feelings of regret and pain, so I messaged her, apologizing for every time I hurt her feelings, and told her how much I missed her, reminding her of all the fun we used to have together. Then she straight up told me she didn’t want to be friends anymore. I kept trying to apologize, telling her how much she meant to me until I was balling my eyes out. Finally I told her I couldn’t talk to her anymore. Continue reading →