I met this guy a few months ago. He is 25, I’ll be 18 next week. I mentioned to him my age, but I guess he didn’t hear me. He found out my age on Christmas eve and cut things off (he has a kid and a steady job so I get why.) Since then he was short, purposely ignoring me, etc.
I had many heart to hearts with him, he changed, but yesterday he went back to ignoring me. He just would tell me he’s interested but he would still ignore me, yet I know he is talking to someone else because of his Snapchat score. I got onto him about ignoring me and he got upset at me and told me he didn’t wanna fight.
This morning I got tired of it. I told him I was putting off talking to other people and it wasn’t fair when he didn’t care. He came back with “don’t stop talking to other people” and told me to go out and have fun. I told him I was going to delete him and that if he wanted to talk when I did turn 18, he had my number. That I needed to let go. He agreed with that. My friends seem to think he was trying to use me for sex. When I first met him he was all sweet. He never did anything I wasn’t comfortable with. Idk if I should message him after my birthday and ask him if he still wants to talk or what? I truly love him.. Please help.
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“He came back with “don’t stop talking to other people” and told me to go out and have fun.”
Move on. He’s expressly told you to. Stop acting like a desperate doormat. You deserve better and someone who is at the same point you are in life. No amount of begging or manipulating (yes, you were manipulating and he knows it,) will bring him back. Also, stop stalking him. That part is harder, but you will move on faster if you block him from all social media. He already has one child to worry about and doesn’t need two.
I’m sorry you hurt and miss him. This too shall pass. It may pass like a kidney stone, but it’ll pass.
If you want him back truly then you need to play hard to get. If you get him back after being totally silent for a while, the best thing to do is fulfill his darkest and deepest sexual desires. Prove your dedication.