I’m not sure how long me and my girl have been dating, because we only go out once a week, and we also had a packed schedule, but we have gone out for seven dates and we message each other everyday.
I would say that we had a deep connection and understanding for one another, but during our fifth date, I made a mistake. I told her that I began dating because I used to like another girl, and that I want to replace my feelings for that other girl. When I said it, I thought there was nothing wrong with what I said to her. I didn’t commit infidelity, so I decided to tell her that. But ever since she heard me say those things, she started to act distant, and indifferent towards me, but I could tell that she still liked me. My girl broke up with me two months ago, and I felt sad and everything.
Time has passed, and I know that I can definitely get my girl back, but I was wondering if I can still do that, if I have been lying to her about myself. So I have been lying to this girl about my education and also about my family. I told her that I’m currently studying at this university, but I’m actually not in school right now. I also told her that I have parents, but my mum passed away and my dad was divorced with her. So I’ve living with my aunt and uncle for almost 7 years now. I know lying to her was wrong, but I felt really insecure if I told her about me. I really like this girl. Should I tell her everything when we get back together? Or should I just reconsider about ever being with her again?