“We’re madly in love but he accused me of cheating”

Me and my boyfriend are going to make a year soon. We’ve been through everything. Physical fights, verbal fights, we love each other so much I think there’s more than love, a soul connection.

He’s a good man, he teaches me a lot cause he’s older, buys me what I want, motivates me, he would kill a man for me. Pretty much he would sacrifice for me. Now the thing is… the other day he accused me of cheating. He called me a hoe, bitch, he told me to rot, die. This isn’t the first time. He said he was drunk. It’s not like it happens all the time, but should I forgive him after this? It hurts because we’re madly in love and everything would just be thrown away to the trash… forever. How he makes me feel would be thrown away. What in the world do I do?

2 thoughts on ““We’re madly in love but he accused me of cheating”

  1. Anonymous says:

    RUN AWAY! No healthy relationship has physical fights or ever, EVER calls you names and starts claiming you’re cheating on them (man or woman). (Although cheaters themselves tend to blame the other people in the relationship of doing so.) You are in a abusive relationship and it will get worse. Get out now. Make sure to remove your pets and children to a safe location and you might not want to be alone to tell him you are gone. Block him from all social media, phones, email, ect. and don’t look back.

  2. Anonymous says:

    I would first sit him down and talk it out. Then advice him to see a psychologist or get some help. This could be rooted in a bigger issue. Usually people who act like that when intoxicated or very angry do it because 1. they were either treated that way or 2. they have some unresolved anger issues.

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