I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and I love him dearly. The problem is that I have the desire to sleep with other people, and having multiple partners is a turn on for me, but I still want to only be with my boyfriend emotionally and him with me.
He could sleep with other people too if he wanted, but I’ve dipped my toe in the water and he doesn’t seem interested in it and I don’t wanna leave him, but how can we be together if we aren’t on the same sexual desires? Opinions?
LemonVibe 
Exactly your question has the answer..
Every choice comes at a cost..Weigh which choice in the long run will cost you less..
Can’t have both. Choose one.
You absolutely can have both. You just have to be on the same page. Look up resources on opening up a relationship, polyamory, swing, etc. It’s not easy to broach the topic, but it is definitely doable.