I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about four months now, and recently I feel like he doesn’t find me attractive anymore. When I come home (we live in an apartment together,) I give him a hug and kiss but he won’t respond with the same level of affection.
When we’re in public I wrap my arm around his since he doesn’t grab my hand. And we’re living together, we share a bed in our room but he’s been sleeping in the living room for the past month. He says he can’t stand sleeping there because of my cat’s litter box and he can get sick (he has Crohn’s). I’m ok with that but he’s given me no solution to fix it. I feel like he’s using the litter box/health reason as a way to cover for the fact that he doesn’t want to sleep with me anymore. And the idea of him not finding me attractive kills me. It brings down my already low self-esteem and I go to sleep in tears. We have so much in common and we’re so compatible I don’t want to give up on our relationship. I feel like he is my soulmate, he hasn’t been in a serious relationship before so I try to be patient with him but my patience is running low. I’m tired of feeling depressed. I’m tired of feeling ugly. And I’m tired of going to bed crying. I will take any advice please.