“My boyfriend sent his ex videos of us”

I don’t know what to do at this point. So me boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We had our ups and downs. Before me he used to mess around with girls, had a couple of long-based relationships, but mostly messing around.

When we got together, we were bumping heads, but we did fall in love and worked things out. Recently there’s been one girl he used to mess around with — I found out that he sends her videos of us and basically gets off to it, trying to I guess convince her to get into it, too.

When I found out, I lost it. I knew her sort of because we’ve talked before. I told her I didn’t want them talking and she was being cut off after I went to him first. After the yelling, the crying, the begging, and him deciding to go to therapy, we are slowly working on this. And it’s better.

He’s attentive, he’s gentle, more caring than ever before in this relationship. It hurts him when I’m not around, and when I’m suffering from my depression and anxiety, he tries his best to help.

But now, this girl’s friends are spreading these videos to my friends, and that person is saying I’m stupid and foolish and just horrible things. Now I’m crying and a mess. I’m so scared I’m still being used, or maybe he’s trying to change. I don’t know anything anymore. I need help. I’m trying to take it one day at a time, but it gets harder to breathe. What should i do?

One thought on ““My boyfriend sent his ex videos of us”

  1. Anonymous says:

    The man gave some stranger to you (she’s not your friend) videos of you having sex.
    He gas lighted you when he got caught distributing them and cheating on you.
    She illegally distributed the videos.

    GO TO THE POLICE AND DUMP HIM! He’s a terrible person and so is she! This is called revenge porn and it’s illegal and news flash, if you were not of age, he’s also guilty of distributing child pornography.

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