I’m in love with my best guy friend, but I know that he loves me as a sister, AND I’m in a relationship. I don’t know what to do about it because if I tell him, our friendship would be ruined. Help?
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I’m in love with my best guy friend, but I know that he loves me as a sister, AND I’m in a relationship. I don’t know what to do about it because if I tell him, our friendship would be ruined. Help?
First of all handle the relationship that you are in by ending it. If you are looking outside of your relationship then this obviously isn’t the right one for you.
Take some time to be single and distance yourself from your friend. This will be hard, but since it’s a dead end you need to do this for yourself.
After the present relationship is definitely over then it is a good time to seek out other prospects. Once again, you need to take time to be single which will be hard at first, but you need time to heal and find out how to enjoy being with just you. After you start loving yourself and reaching inwards to what you really want then it will be easier to date and find the man who is both your best friend and love of your life. The right man will return the sentiment.
I’m in a similar situation, and to be honest, I think you should end your current relationship. You should talk to your friend and see how he feels. It might work out it might not but sometimes you just have to take a chance.