My husband is in a group text with a bunch of his coworkers, and all they talk about are hot girls and constantly send pictures of naked or half-naked girls. Some are famous, some are Instagram models, and some are girls they hook up with. My husband chimes in occasionally by just agreeing that one of the girls is good looking.
Today I saw that one of his friends sent a picture of a girl’s vagina that he had recently had sex with. My husband replied with “I like that p**sy a lot. Definitely down to bang her if you want.” Then someone else wrote “he’s obsessed. He wants to eat it so bad” (talking about my husband).
I don’t even know what to say/do. I don’t think he cheated on me, but should I be concerned that he is willing to? After I saw that, I looked through more text messages and saw that he asked if anyone knows of a non-Asian rub-and-tug. We have a four-month-old baby, and have only been married two years.
He’s always been a gentleman to me and is so good to our daughter. I have absolutely no complaints about our relationship. We get along great and very seldom argue. That’s why I’m so shocked by this. I feel like he is a whole different person outside of our relationship.
Any advice on what I should do about this?