So I’ve been dating this girl for almost two years now. We’ve been through our rough patches, but are doing great. During one of these rough patches, she signed a lease at an apartment with her “gay” friend. She asked how I felt about it beforehand, and I told her it made me uncomfortable. Not because he’s a guy, but because he went to my school and nobody ever knew for sure if he was really gay. There’s never been proof of him with another guy, but there have been several girls in his past. The few times I’ve been around him, he’s rude and talks about his money and job opportunities, not to mention belittling things I say. He clearly does not care too much for me. However, my girlfriend is now committed to living with him for a year. I trust her completely. But Honestly, It does bother me to think of them on the couch drinking wine and watching movies together. I worry about him making an awkward, spontaneous, wine-induced move on her and creating a new world of problems in our relationship. I understand the situation might very well be out of my control completely. If there’s not a solution to the situation, I’d at least like to know how to feel better about it. Instead of feeling like I’m waiting for something to happen.