I have been debating about this for awhile. I don’t want to share it with anyone but I’ve come to a halt, I’m confused, and I dont have anyone I can share this with that knows how to handle it calmly because I dislike when people can’t keep it cool, it makes me Anxious. I don’t want to sound needy or anything, But I need advice to make my decision.. I’ve been dating him for awhile, almost 2 years now. I am his 1st girlfriend and now he is moving away. I know long distance isn’t very good especially for him. And I’m wondering if maybe I am keeping him from possibilities to come. He says he loves me.. but noting I am his first.. I’m not utterly sure if he knows what he means, or if he thinks its love because I’m the only one willing to listen and help. Now we have no way of seeing each other, we barely have a way to talk. I don’t want to hurt him, but i know sometimes.. its better to rip off the bandaid instead of slowly peeling it off. So.. I want another opinion.