So, my boyfriend of about 8 months was driving my car (I was the passenger), and he backed into a (big, YELLOW, obvious) pole. There is only superficial damage, but it is still damaged. And it’s ugly. My sweet, oblivious, boyfriend apologized profusely, but has not offered to get it fixed. He makes a significantly larger salary than I, and I kind-of feel myself resenting him for not offering to get it fixed. Should I bring it up and ask him to fix it (or at least pay for half of it)? What would you do?